hi monique. when she is born or he is born people will notice and some will ask and some will just stare. Hi my name is sara and i have a two year old little girl with down syndrome. I knew when i was about 5 month old. me and her dad knew that there was a possibility. we did not share with no one. when she was born i would tell people when they stare at her. I would tell them ”yeah my baby has down syndrome, some will say ”yes i could tell” some would say ”you really cant tell”. It was hard in the begining to tell people, but it become easier with time. People will ask me if i had the amnio centisis test done. I would reply ”would it had made a different, was my baby going to be normal with this test”, the respond was no. therefor it was a dumb question. It is totally up to you and how you feel. it is easier with time to talk about it. but it really dont make a different. People are going to love her or him and accept her/him. There are a blessing from God and are so loveble. If you have any question please feel free to ask me you can count on me. Sara. you can see pictures of my baby in my album.